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Patricia Boynton's avatar

Oh my. Not yours, ours. That's in every respect quite a punchline. I can only imagine the frustration and feeling of hopelessness. I really think that is the perfect time to throw oneself on the tile floor, kick and scream, "No fair, no fair, no fair." And then do exactly what the grown-up Jennifer did, create a welcoming place of work and wisdom for other writers. Cheers to taking our time, doing the work, and saying what we need to say.

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"It's not your book, its ours." Oof. That must have been rough. I would have felt like I just sold off my child. So I guess the take away here is to simply take your time? Ensure your baby is ready to stand on its own, etc. Personally, I find impatience to be the hardest part of writing but, this is a good reminder.

And in regards to character. I'm glad to know I'm not crazy. I recently revisited my antagonistic force and realized he felt flat. Then I realized I didn't yet love him. I couldn't see his pain as sharply as I could see mine (*cough*, sorry, I mean the "protagonists." But, who am I kidding? I'm basically writing a memoir disguised as a novel.) It complicates and slows down the process to find love for everyone you write about but I guess, in that way, writing is the ultimate meditation. No wonder it takes forever. Staying present and finding love for those who are seemingly unlovable are both (at least for me) fleeting experiences.

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